Relationships in college are tricky..........definitely depends on the people involved and their maturity level. I personally wouldn't recommend a relationship at least until junior year. This is b/c you have already really experienced the "fresh" college experience and you know what's out there. By this time a lot of females are ready to settle down, but it varies with males. I think that anything is possible, if you want it bad enough. At the same time, DO NOT BE NAIVE!! :-)
I really think college relationships get too serious too fast, simply due to the fact that there are no restrictions and limitations, nor supervison lol...u have the option of being with that person day and night, which is good while it last however when its time to depart, this is where the relationship gets tested. Your so used to the freedom of being wit that person all the time, time away from them is hell and can cause for lack of a better word paranoia. I agree wit meka as far as waiting till the ladder portion of college to get into a relationship. College should be about being focused on you, how u can improve yourself, and your place in this world. all this plus partying, freedom, and studies, you don't really have time to deal with the complications and hastle that come with being in a relationship. WHich is where the cutty buddy comes into play. Yes i agree its nice to have someone to chill wit and hang with and all that cakey stuff, but as far as a relationship thats pretty much for the birds lol...a college student should jus have someone on the side they can share the benefits of a relationship with lol (w/o being in an actual relationship) and then go right back to hittin the books lol...the tricky part is how mature a person is about the situation... a person should have only one cutty buddy and they should make it clear to each other at the very beginning what exactly their situation is to prevent any misunderstandings, or leading someone on
Relationships in college are tricky..........definitely depends on the people involved and their maturity level. I personally wouldn't recommend a relationship at least until junior year. This is b/c you have already really experienced the "fresh" college experience and you know what's out there. By this time a lot of females are ready to settle down, but it varies with males. I think that anything is possible, if you want it bad enough. At the same time, DO NOT BE NAIVE!! :-)
ReplyDeleteI really think college relationships get too serious too fast, simply due to the fact that there are no restrictions and limitations, nor supervison lol...u have the option of being with that person day and night, which is good while it last however when its time to depart, this is where the relationship gets tested. Your so used to the freedom of being wit that person all the time, time away from them is hell and can cause for lack of a better word paranoia. I agree wit meka as far as waiting till the ladder portion of college to get into a relationship. College should be about being focused on you, how u can improve yourself, and your place in this world. all this plus partying, freedom, and studies, you don't really have time to deal with the complications and hastle that come with being in a relationship. WHich is where the cutty buddy comes into play. Yes i agree its nice to have someone to chill wit and hang with and all that cakey stuff, but as far as a relationship thats pretty much for the birds lol...a college student should jus have someone on the side they can share the benefits of a relationship with lol (w/o being in an actual relationship) and then go right back to hittin the books lol...the tricky part is how mature a person is about the situation... a person should have only one cutty buddy and they should make it clear to each other at the very beginning what exactly their situation is to prevent any misunderstandings, or leading someone on
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