but if they were just texting, or if you really REALLY like, (love?) the person, your friend will have to understand. ESPECIALLY! If they have already moved on
I mean if you are really close with this friend that breaks all the rules of the girl code...but if you just people who have a connection but not a strong one ya know to each their own ha ha
It really depends on the two friends involved. Honestly, I know I wouldn't care if any of my friends dated an ex but I wouldn't recommend any of them because they weren't all that great, LOL. I would appreciate a friend at least asking me first though
i agree with ladytarheel11, but only partially. I feel there is a very mature way to handle a situation such as this that many people who experience this situation avoid. first off, he's an X for an reason lol so clearly he wasn't all that great and being that we're friends we most likely are alot alike and share some of the same opinions about men. thus, if he wasn't meant for me then he probably, won't be the person for you either. However this is not always the case because friends can be different, so if it does come dowon to a friend dating another friend's X, there are certain expectations. one, i would greatly appreciate it if you asked or at least got my opinion on the situation before yall started dating. Secondly, if its someone who i was deeply in love with or had a great connection with but it jus didnt work out, then a friend shouldn't date him. What it comes down to is pretty much a matter of respect and loyalty. Friends shouldn't let a situation like this break them apart and they should also respect each other's feelings and opinions. at the end of the day, there are plenty of fish in the sea, but you are lucky enough to have found at least one true friend.
depends how close they were.
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so the rule of thumb is a BIG no-no!
but if they were just texting, or if you really REALLY like, (love?) the person, your friend will have to understand. ESPECIALLY! If they have already moved on
I mean if you are really close with this friend that breaks all the rules of the girl code...but if you just people who have a connection but not a strong one ya know to each their own ha ha
ReplyDeleteIt really depends on the two friends involved. Honestly, I know I wouldn't care if any of my friends dated an ex but I wouldn't recommend any of them because they weren't all that great, LOL. I would appreciate a friend at least asking me first though
ReplyDeletei agree with ladytarheel11, but only partially. I feel there is a very mature way to handle a situation such as this that many people who experience this situation avoid. first off, he's an X for an reason lol so clearly he wasn't all that great and being that we're friends we most likely are alot alike and share some of the same opinions about men. thus, if he wasn't meant for me then he probably, won't be the person for you either. However this is not always the case because friends can be different, so if it does come dowon to a friend dating another friend's X, there are certain expectations. one, i would greatly appreciate it if you asked or at least got my opinion on the situation before yall started dating. Secondly, if its someone who i was deeply in love with or had a great connection with but it jus didnt work out, then a friend shouldn't date him. What it comes down to is pretty much a matter of respect and loyalty. Friends shouldn't let a situation like this break them apart and they should also respect each other's feelings and opinions. at the end of the day, there are plenty of fish in the sea, but you are lucky enough to have found at least one true friend.
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